Something New For Me

Today, I found out something new.
New for myself, but maybe not for others.

I found that sometimes,
we really couldn't find the right person and the right time to express our feeling.

What to do in this kind of situation?
We can only talk to ourselves.
We can only be the one who listen to ourselves.

Thus, I have created a formula.
Here it is...

How to find yourself back when you are lost?
1. Say everything you want to say or express everything in you mind and heart to yourself.
How you feel? (Cry if u feel like crying)
2. Listen attentively to yourself. What has happened...?
3. What are the problems or reasons, analyze them...
4. Find alternative and creative solutions to solve the problems in a proper way.
5. Make sure the problems are being solved effectively and well without making anyone feel
uncomfortable.
6. Make sure after the problems solved, you can do things well just like before.


It's you who make me created this formula. (Thank you)
It's you who remind me, I have to be independent. (Thank you)
But at the same time,
(from another point of view),
I feel that,
you are not there when I need you.

In my opinion,
if our partners need us,
we will try to listen attentively to them,
make them feel better
and give suggestions to them.

No matter how sleepy we are,
but at that time,
our mind will be focused also.

This is so called "sacrifice in love", willingly.

But you didn't do so.
Maybe what you think is different from me?
Tell me what you think then...

"I will always beside you",
But,
Where are you now?




........................................................
Are you the person that I want?




* I'm sorry that I couldn't make allowance for you in this kind of situation.